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2022.01.24 11:08 weird_friends09 Two friends in a relationship asked for something messed up
Ok, so i'm (f) in a group of friends. In this group, we have a few couples. One is X (f) and Y (m). We're all teens. A bit of background: X and Y started dating about a year and a little bit ago. They're pretty touchy and can get a little too much with the PDA, in the opinion of the friend group as a whole. This has been discussed with them, but (I'll admit) not in the way it should've and it didn't go very well. Nothing's been said about that since.
Someone else in our friend group, who'll we'll call J (f) is single and haven't been in any relationships etc. Yesterday night, X and Y reached out to J asking for something. The tone was really weird and J - whom I'm very close too - reached out to me immediately.
I can't make this stuff up- me and J both thought "threesome" right off the bat, and sure enough - X asked for a threesome. Immediately, J got (understandably) very upset. I feel it's important to reiterate here that we are all teenagers (minors) and that J has never been in a romantic relationship, and does not view X or Y in any sexual or romantic way, so this was crossing just... so many boundaries. At this point J and I are on FT together and J writes a pretty long, angry text at X and Y (they had made a gc) saying how upset they felt.
X immediately said that it was a joke, and apologized, as did Y. Y ended up texting me, saying again that it was a "shitty joke" and that he would "never risk what they had with J" and all that.
Me and J did NOT believe them at first, at all. The tone in which X asked J was super weird and did not come off as a joke at all, and we didn't understand why a gc and everything would be made for a joke.
Y kept texting me (J knows about all this) and ended up confessing that he was deeply stressed and unhappy with our friend group and the entire time kept saying - in a way that was distressingly convincing - that the threesome thing was a joke.
It was late and I had to go at this point so I told J and Y (X hadn't texted anyone) that I had to go and I slept on it. And now, the day after, I'm no longer totally sure it was real.
Thing is, X and Y are not master manipulators like it seemed they were last night, in fact Y is really, really bad with everything social and cues and stuff.. They have an issue with PDA and all but I don't quite see them doing this, and (infamously) tone is not conveyed over text. Also, their excuse of a joke very, very convincing in its delivery. Frankly, J is so sure it was a joke and X and Y are so adamant that it is not a joke that I literally don't know what the truth is.
I told J that maybe she should hold back, cool off and be more objective, because she had plans to end her friendship with Y all-together - just Y because the joke was his idea, as he admitted - and wait until everyone could talk in person. I made sure to point out that this anger is totally, completely and absolutely justified, and that even as a ""joke"" this was bad enough, and crossed enough boundaries, that it was justified in ending the friendship over. I just didn't want to rush into anything that would cause long-term fallout while everything was still super raw and emotional.
Either way, personally I'm going to reflect on my relationship with X and Y because I don't see how someone could make such a shitty "joke" and think it was funny or OK, esp. with their past of making us uncomfortable with their PDA. I just don't want to rush into anything while everyone is still so angry and end up accidentally fracturing the entire group when I think the confrontation could go better when everyone is less emotional - minimize the damage so everyone else can still be friends while Y and X figure their shit out.
J got very, very angry with me and accused me of taking X and Y's side. I am not doing that- I really, really don't think what they did was acceptable in any way. A third friend, "C" (f) got involved and texted me and seems to agree with what I'm saying - about how it's super fcked up either way, but how maybe these huge decisions shouldn't be made right now. Also, if it's important, we are about to start our mock exams... so all this is just not a good time, and C seems to think we should wait until our exams are over.
I don't really know what to do. I don't want to seem like an apologist to X or Y, because I think they kinda deserve to lose a friendship or two over this. But I also haven't talked to any of them face to face, and now all this stuff about X having issues with the friend group makes me think we should get together and communicate irl, not necessarily to try and fix their relationship with J, just to figure everything out that's going wrong. I'm very, very close to J and it sucks having them so angry with me and thinking I'm not gonna support them in whatever their final decision is, because I would. Any advice is much appreciated.
TL;DR: Two friends asked someone for a threesome, that person got very upset and is now going to end the friendship (understandably). I said to consider waiting for emotions to lower a little and they are now also angry at me.
(Also, I checked the rules and I'm not sure if this falls under the "sexual situations for people under 18" since this is more about whether or not we're being manipulated and is not abuse, but if it does break the rules, sorry and could someone please point to where this could be posted?)
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